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Pushing and pushing for Spelman to respond to him, switching social media platforms when she wouldn’t respond to him on the previous one?

This is someone who’s demonstrating poor social calibration; he’s getting a very obvious brush-off and keeps trying anyway.

The first message was relatively innocuous, but the ones that followed became weren’t – he was making the kind of jokes-but-not-really that assume a greater level of familiarity between the two than actually existed.

Two people who had at least a passing relationship online might get away with tweets like “For my birthday, I want @gracespelman to follow me back”; from a complete stranger, that’s just unsettlingly creepy.

If you’re still struggling to get that first date, then you’re better choosing lower-risk, lower-investment approaches like meeting people through your social circle.

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