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Most gay men already know that the more masculine you present in online dating profiles, the more interest you will attract.

I’ve always known that, aside from being black, my feminine, flowing, chest-length locks were the greatest deterrent to my own success, which is why I logged off altogether for a while.

My greatest strength is my personality, and I’m not very photogenic.

Add that to the fact that black men are virtually invisible on online dating sites (unless you are in the top 5 percent of musculature and attractiveness) compared to white men (who can be completely average in every way and still fill a social calendar), and it became clear to me that looking for dates on the Internet was pointless for me, personally.

Over the course of 10 days I received 28 messages, had 29 convos based on my initial message, and scored 36 woofs.

While these numbers are not massively high (I don’t do half-naked pics and I’m black), the butch factor clearly had an impact.

Remember that I kept profile text—the information that actually gives you some insight about who I am—the same in both iterations of the profile.