First date dating advice
“She’ll spend time doing her hair, applying her makeup oh-so-perfectly, choosing the right outfit—all of which is easily an hour or more out of her day.You won’t be spending the same amount of prep time, so consider that her investment has already trumped yours, and make it worth her while.” Davidson suggests that you meet somewhere that you’d take a “real” first date, not just a “check-her-out” prospect.
Why don’t we both think about how we feel about another date.
I’ll email (or text, or IM) you later.’ Then be sure you do it,” she says.
Meaning what you say and doing what you promise will show that you are a quality guy.
Playing it ‘cool’ by being unavailable, or simply lacking follow-through, will make any smart woman think twice about trusting you with her time, let alone her heart.” And if it turns out it’s just a case of you’re just not that into her? If you’re out for a meal or drinks, pick up the tab, but do not tell her you’ll be calling if you won’t.
Joy Davidson, the stakes are generally higher for her.