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When he couldn’t stop looking at another woman in a restaurant on his honeymoon it was a wake up call for his wife (and him).
The three second rule Sex addicts in recovery are told to follow the three second rule, meaning that although you can’t help glancing at or noticing someone, you can give yourself three seconds to stop looking.
At that point you can hopefully manage to redirect your thoughts away from sexual objectification and into seeing the person as a person (a student, someone’s daughter, etc.) and to wish them well.
One of the partners of sex addicts who wrote to me challenged this idea.
Ogling as a form of sexualizing and objectifying people is so common among sex addicts as to be almost universal.